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  <title>Comments for Do You Make New Year&apos;s Resolutions?</title>
<subtitle>Welcome to my office.  I am Barbara J. Feldman, syndicated newspaper columnist, online publisher, author, mother, wife and Net surfer supreme (not listed
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    <published>2008-12-30T20:51:22Z</published>
    <updated>2008-12-31T17:43:52Z</updated>
    <title>Do You Make New Year&apos;s Resolutions?</title>
    <summary>I usually don&apos;t make New Year&apos;s resolutions because I find that they are easily ignored. On the other hand, throughout the year I do set new goals and try to...</summary>
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      <![CDATA[<p>I usually don't make New Year's resolutions because I find that they are easily ignored.  On the other hand, throughout the year I do set new goals and try to improve my behavior bit by bit for the better.</p>

<p>For example,  I recently committed to <a target="_blank" href="http://www.barbarafeldman.com/five_a_day.html">handling at least five pieces a paper a day </a>from my inboxes, in an effort to keep all my stuff current.  "I am on top of stuff.  Stuff is not on top of me!" </p>

<p>Did you make a New Year's resolution for 2009?   Please vote, and feel free to share your resolution in a comment below.   The act of making a public commitment will help you reach your goal.*</p>

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* Robert B. Cialdini, PhD. <a target="_blank" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0688128165?ie=UTF8&tag=surfinthenetwith&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=0688128165">Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion</a></p>

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    <title>Comment from Viktorija on 2009-01-03</title>
    <author>
        <name>Viktorija</name>
        <uri></uri>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I resolve to get saksafon and start to lern how to pley it ! But i think thet it woldnot resolved!:(<br />
Hepy 2009 year</p>]]>
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    <published>2009-01-03T08:43:36Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from Munene on 2009-01-02</title>
    <author>
        <name>Munene</name>
        <uri></uri>
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        <![CDATA[<p>2009,Make it a year to share with world resources.</p>]]>
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    <published>2009-01-03T05:42:09Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from Barbara on 2009-01-01</title>
    <author>
        <name>Barbara</name>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I prefer to think of these as daily aspirations as opposed to annual resolutions. </p>

<p>Some days are met with great success, other days... not so much. ;) <br />
 <br />
Don't wait for time. Make it.<br />
Don't wait for love. Feel it.<br />
Don't wait for money. Earn it.<br />
Don't wait for the path. Find it.<br />
Don't wait for opportunity. Create it.<br />
Don't go for less. Get the best.<br />
Don't compare. Be unique.<br />
Don't fight your misfortune. Transform it.<br />
Don't avoid failure. Use it.<br />
Don't dwell on mistake. Learn from it.<br />
Don't back down. Go around.<br />
Don't close your eyes. Open your mind.<br />
Don't run for life. Embrace it. </p>

<p>- Bigvai Volcy</p>]]>
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    <published>2009-01-01T15:47:58Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from MÁRCIA MACIEL on 2009-01-01</title>
    <author>
        <name>MÁRCIA MACIEL</name>
        <uri></uri>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I will try to be better a more patient and tolerant person in my life and in my job.</p>]]>
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    <published>2009-01-01T14:10:58Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from laurie on 2008-12-31</title>
    <author>
        <name>laurie</name>
        <uri></uri>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I resolve to get out of debt by spending less and looking for ways to use what I have more effectively.</p>]]>
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    <published>2008-12-31T23:24:47Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from arnold du toit on 2008-12-31</title>
    <author>
        <name>arnold du toit</name>
        <uri></uri>
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        <![CDATA[<p>never procrastinate.Just do what you have to do!</p>]]>
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    <published>2008-12-31T20:50:10Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from ERNA on 2008-12-31</title>
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        <name>ERNA</name>
        <uri></uri>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I only think about it to be a better Mom each year for my sons. I have lost about 70lbs this year and want to lose another 40......</p>]]>
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    <published>2008-12-31T18:26:46Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from Deb C on 2008-12-31</title>
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        <name>Deb C</name>
        <uri></uri>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I resolve to meet with one of my college friends at least once each school term!  We always gab on the phone-when we actually catch each other at home-for an hour and say we'll get together soon.  We're both teachers, so once a term is more specific and less restrictive than "we have to..."!</p>]]>
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    <published>2008-12-31T17:44:57Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from Amy Ackerman on 2008-12-31</title>
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        <name>Amy Ackerman</name>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I resolve to work out at least twice a week.</p>]]>
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    <published>2008-12-31T17:33:30Z</published>
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    <title>Comment from Eden Buday on 2008-12-31</title>
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        <name>Eden Buday</name>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I resolve to lose 30 pounds in 2009. </p>]]>
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    <published>2008-12-31T17:14:37Z</published>
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